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Wednesday, October 11, 2006

If It’s Funnier Than It Is Wrong Do It…

The preceding statement was at one point a staple of how I lived my life. Now some years later, it is something that I want nothing to do with. I have been a witness to many a funny thing in my day – in no way am I myself claiming to have what someone might call a humor bone – things from the outbursts of an off the wall comment, to the fluorescent light battles that seem all to common in our cities back alleys. But what I have seen is the destruction of myself and my fellow comrades spiritual growth a different points in our walks through this very concept of humor.

My findings have been this; we as Christians seem to in an overall sense do quite well when it comes to living out our faith in public. We do not cuss, we are polite, we will even drop a five dollar bill into a buskers basket once and a while (I once saw a man playing buckets full of glass, and he was good, how can you not support that kind of talent?) and of course there is always a smile on our face. But follow that same Christian home, and over to his friends house for a party – were talking about Christians, so a party is the concept of hanging out in the same house where nobody has any idea of what to do prompting everyone watch a movie, probably a new one where everyone will fall asleep, missing any and all memorable moments – and things tend to shift. If you listen closely you will hear a certain familiarity come out, a certain comfort with the crowd.

In my own experience I have heard many a crass word, joke or conversation, most often within the group of my Christian friends. In fact I have seem a number of people get frustrated with the amount of personal attack, racial jokes, sexual discussions, and sarcasm. It’s as though we leave out faith at the door and let out everything we keep covered throughout the day. I kid you not I have walked into a setting where a group of males who were being trained to be evangelists were living; by the time I left that that building some 10 minutes later I had vomited on the road from the amount of homosexual talk and actions taking place. But if it’s funnier than it is wrong do it right? Of course there was a lot of ‘humorous’ shock value that brought this kind of awkward smile to our faces. Why is Jackass so popular? Shock value; where else would you see a man thrust a fish hook through his cheek and go fishing with himself as bait in shark infested waters?

I have also come across a number of people whom are either new to their faith or not well founded in their faith, who are lost on the idea of people acting like that. “I can’t tell them from my non-Christian friends,” “My friends who aren’t saved have better morals than my Christian friends.” It has even come to the point where I am finally hearing people questioning their faith on the very basis that they see people following other faiths or no faith at all, living better lives than their Christian friends. This is not an attack to say separate yourself from the world and circle the wagons as it were, but it is a call to plead with you to live your faith without compromise at every moment of your life. Again I’m only stating these thoughts out of frustration from my own life, my own experience to get a laugh – which even with shock value seemed to get me no further. Perhaps a book on humor… How can you be leading someone to the Lord one moment and the next moment be engaged in a mocking display of sinfulness? I plead with myself and those whose sarcasm leads them to a place of comfort in sin, to step up and live a life of no compromise, whether your in public or private, because either way God sees our actions.

6 comments:

Ashley said...

At one time this was one of my biggest frustrations, over time I got used to it, and it wasn't so shocking anymore... it was just life. God's bringing me back to the place of no compromise.... even in humor..............

Princess Jones said...

You're right. Very right.

Dead 2 MySelf said...

WOW so true! I have acctually been scolded from some of my best freinds for no longer using crass humor. "You've Changed man!" That is hard. I pray for conviction everynight and that was one of many results.. Being convicted of my speech. I get the whole "your to serious" alot these days but thats all right. I think the Lords will in my life is a little more important then being popular.
Thanks for Coming back to drop another fantastic thinker of a blog!
Peace
B~ron

Anonymous said...

Thanks for this.
It's something that a friend had brought up to me a while ago. As Christians, other people tend to watch what we judge as 'acceptable' and what's 'unacceptable'. We should think about what kind of an image of our God that we're presenting to the rest of the world.

Anonymous said...

I agree with you Gregwuar. I know i've been the source of your frustrations on more than one occasion, and it took me a long time to realize it was wrong.

It finally came to a point one day when Curtis asked me if I wanted a drink at a party. I was two weeks away from being 19 (legal age in saskatchewan) and as per usual I said no.

He complained like he always does and said it was only two weeks...and why would I care about the law if i'm the one who plans and masterminds the burning of cars, lightbulb battles in the alleys, and oven riding on the streets? It struck me that I really had no answer. I had lost my moral high ground and was no better than anyone at that party.

Your post has further reinforced this in my mind; the need for integrity in not just the major issues of drinking, drugs, and sex, but also in our speech, our dealings with the law, and general outlook on life.

-Brett

doxasky said...

What's on your heart these days?